Today, I wanted to tackle a topic that I get asked about a lot.
“Can you love your body but still want to change it?”
There’s a misconception with self-love, where people assume that to say you love yourself (and love all of yourself), that means that you love all of yourself all of the time – never having a moment where you’re not 100% thrilled with any part of your body.
However, that’s just not true. It is most definitely, a zillion percent possible to love yourself but still want to work towards changing yourself.
Here’s the difference.
When you truly love your body, you’re not pigeonholing yourself into a static position wherein you love the exact weight or fat content that it is in that very moment.
In fact, it’s the total opposite – you’re embracing yourself as a fluid, ever-changing being. And because you’re ever-changing, inevitably physical attributes will fluctuate.
You’ll put on weight. You’ll lose weight. You’ll feel bloated. You’ll feel light. You’ll sometimes look radiant. You’ll sometimes look tired.To truly love your body is to love it unconditionally. Click To Tweet
On some days, granted, you might be less than happy with how bloated you look that day, or you might cringe when you look at yourself sideways. But (and this is a big but) – even though you might want to change certain aspects of yourself, this doesn’t mean you don’t love your body.
Your happiness with your body is not conditional with everything being a certain way, with no room for flexibility.
Your attitude towards improving yourself is not “SHIT! I ate way too much yesterday. I’ve gotta do a whole lotta cardio today so that I can get back to loving my body!” but instead “I love what my body can do for me, regardless of what it looks like! I feel great when it’s a little toned, so I might do some cardio”.
See the difference?
Don’t let your appreciation of your body be conditional. Don’t be happy with your body only when you’ve fulfilled a certain criteria for yourself.Can you love yourself and want to change certain parts? YES! Click To Tweet
Know that your ability to love your body is not dependant on what it looks like that day, but how you feel about it in general – your ability to love it through thick and thin, quite literally.